OFFICIAL STATEMENT
FUNERAL GUIDELINES - DIOCESE OF NEW ENGLAND
....all things should be done decently and in order.... (1 Corinthians 14:40)
The Orthodox Liturgy of Death (a term used to describe all
services - panikhidas, requiems, Divine Liturgies - that are usually
celebrated in connection with death) presupposes that the deceased
had been baptized, was a communicant of the Eucharist and, in
life, strove to be obedient to the Lord's commandments in pursuit
of that "holiness without which no one will see God"
(Hebrews 12:14).
Through prayer and remembrance, the function of the Liturgy of
Death is to incorporate and affirm the departed in the death and
resurrection of Christ, which are the very content of the life
of the Church. The primary - and probably only - function of the
Liturgy of Death is to make and proclaim that connection - and
even identification - between the death of each Christian and
Christ's death. "Do you not know that all of us who have
been baptized into Christ Jesus were baptized into his death?
We were buried therefore with him by baptism into death, so that
as Christ was raised from the dead by the glory of the Father,
we too might walk in newness of life" (Romans 6:3).
The Liturgy of Death celebrates the tragedy of the spiritual and
physical death of each Christian as being the very sign and victory
of Christ's death and resurrection. In that way, the Liturgy of
Death preserves the unique Christian vision of death - and life
- and calls on the rest of the community to persevere more deeply
and zealously in the baptismal way of dying and rising in Christ,
so that one's last breath can become a witness to the "glory
of the Father." It was, after all, to living people that
Saint Paul wrote: "You have died and your life is hid with
Christ in God" (Colossians 3:3). "Blessed are the dead
who die in the Lord henceforth" (Revelation 14:13). They
are "blessed" because their death is their final and
supreme offering, witness and "Eucharist" through which
the Lord is declared and "made known." The death of
an authentic Christian builds up the community of faith, enabling
it to declare more powerfully that "death is no more!"
I. LITURGICAL EXPRESSION
A. Place of Service
- The body of a departed communicant of the Church should be
brought into the temple, at least on the day of burial.
- According to traditional Orthodox practice, the casket is to
remain open until the end of the service.
B. Services
Presently there are two main ways of celebrating the feast
of Christian death, ways that reflect the inner experience of
the Church:
- A panikhida service is sung in the funeral home (or the temple)
on the eve of burial. Funeral matins (requiem) is celebrated in
the temple on the day of burial. In principle, the requiem may
"stand alone" and does not "require" Divine
Liturgy.
- The body is brought into the temple on the eve of burial and
the requiem is sung. Divine Liturgy is celebrated on the day of
burial, provided Orthodox family members and friends of the departed
are prepared to receive Communion. (Divine Liturgy, however, is
precluded during Great Lent, when weekday liturgy is forbidden.)
C. Times and Days of the Liturgy of Death
- Burials may not be celebrated on Sundays during the year.
the body is not to be brought into the temple on that day except
towards evening.
- Burials should not be celebrated on Great Feast days and the
body should not be brought into the temple, except towards evening.
- Burials may not be celebrated on Holy Friday, Holy Saturday
or the Sunday of Pascha. The body is not brought into the temple
on those days.
D. Memorial Services (i.e., Panikhida Services)
- Requested memorial services should not be celebrated during
Holy Week.
- The practice of celebrating requested memorial services after
Sunday Liturgy should not be encouraged for it tends to nominalize
the Liturgy in which all - the living and the dead - have already
been incoporated into the Kingdom of God. The practice tends to
disintegrate the Eucharist from the reality of death when, in
fact, it is precisely the Eucharist - as the sacrament of the
Kingdom - that most fully and adequately "proclaim the Lord's
death and confess his resurrection" (cf. Hebrews 12:22-24).
the best time for memorial services on weekends is Saturday, before
evening vigil.
II. NON-COMMUNICANT "MEMBERS"
Non-communicant "members" (that is: people identifying
themselves as Orthodox, who may have attended church services
in life and even supported the church financially, but who willfully
did not receive the Eucharist at all), are not to be brought into
the temple upon their death. By refusing the Eucharist, which
is the sacrament of membership, and membership as sacrament, they
have refused as well to "proclaim the Lord's death and confess
his resurrection" (1 Corinthians 11:26) - which is the very
content of the Liturgy of Death and of Orthodox Christian life.
The burial of such people, not taking place in the temple, may
only include a memorial service, with the celebrant vested only
in a stole. The service may include scriptural readings for the
dead.
III. THE BURIAL OF NON-ORTHODOX PERSONS
The burial of non-Orthodox persons is done in the same manner as the burial of non-communicant "members."
IV. SUICIDE
Like "non-communicant membership" (which is a form
of suicide), suicide itself remains a profound tragedy and sin
that should elicit from the community of faith a deep prayer for
forgiveness, repentance and sorrow - for the sake of the suicide
and for the members of the community as well.
The Orthodox Church normally denies a Church burial to a person
who has committed suicide. However, special pastoral considerations
may allow a determination to be made, in consultation with the
Bishop, to permit a service of burial. Such a determination has,
as its goal, to build up the community of faith and not lead it
to scandal of confusion.
V. THE BURIAL OF MASONS
Upon the death of a freemason, the family of the deceased must
choose between masonic services and Orthodox Christian burial.
If a masonic service is chosen, the body is not to be brought
into the temple and the priest may not celebrate any service at
all - except to commit the body to the grave (if he is asked to
do so) with the singing of "Holy God...."
If a masonic service is not chosen and the body is not bedecked
with masonic or other non-Christian ritual clothing or objects,
the priest may celebrate the Liturgy of Death.
This position is taken because masonic services do not specifically
mention, proclaim or confess Jesus Christ, Son of God, dead and
risen, as being the only answer and Victor after death. Neither
do they proclaim the resurrection of all flesh as being God's
plan for us, nor do they function to incorporate the death of
the deceased into the death of Christ - the only way death can
be overcome. Rather, they presuppose a doctrine of spiritual immortality
and tend to view the disconnection of soul and body as the natural
end of life. This is not a biblical teaching: a soul-less body
and a body-less soul are not "natural." Death is the
sign and fruit of sin, and the mutilation of a human person.
VI. CREMATION
· The witness of the catacombs and the tombs of martyrs
and saints reveals that it has never been the Christian practice
to cremate the dead. Therefore, this practice is not encouraged
at all. Cremated remains are not to be brought into the temple
for services, or for any other reason.
· Although cremation is not encouraged and funeral services
over cremated remains is forbidden, cremated remains may be buried
with the singing of "Holy God...."
VII. AUTOPSIES AND ORGAN DONATION
Autopsies and donations of bodily organs after death may be done so long as respectful care is exercised toward the body. In a broad sense, all Christian bodies, as anointed temples of the Holy Spirit, are "relics," and they are organic components of the wholeness of human personhood.
These guidelines do not preclude any additions as may be needed.